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Post: # 1034281Post I Love Peter Kiel »

Mr Magic wrote:Does anybody truly believe that we've reached an agreement with her, without input/approval from the AFL?

I don't.
And I also believe that they are most likely tipping in some/all? of the money for this accomodation.

Good point.....they don't want this dragging on, even if excited "jounalists" do.


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Post: # 1034286Post matrix »

she better not be staying at the f****** stamford or the hyatt

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Her latest tweet:

Want to thank my lawyers immensly for today, Now to celebrate!!


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Post: # 1034291Post Dr Spaceman »

matrix wrote:she better not be staying at the f****** stamford or the hyatt

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Post: # 1034293Post iwantmeseats »

oh f***. Well, s*** I dont know, WHAt I DO know is we need to stick together and not get split down the middle by all tihs crap. Come on, ultimately, we all still need to be behind the club, for now, the "premiership window" , and the years beyond.

This is not worth driving a wedge into the club, end advantage = nil.


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Post: # 1034298Post Dr Spaceman »

iwantmeseats wrote:oh f***. Well, s*** I dont know, WHAt I DO know is we need to stick together and not get split down the middle by all tihs crap. Come on, ultimately, we all still need to be behind the club, for now, the "premiership window" , and the years beyond.

This is not worth driving a wedge into the club, end advantage = nil.
YEP!

I hate this chick and what she's done to our club.

But as others have said, we were losing the PR battle. That's not good at any time, let alone when you're chasing a major sponsor.

I'm not privvy to all the facts; I was not at the Mediation. I have no choice bit to support the club in this whole ridiculous matter.

With the season fast approaching it looks like the club has either resolved the matter, albeit at a price, or placed itself in a good position to defend further attacks in the future by this individual.


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To give the girl money after everything she has done to the club is wrong.

She is being rewarded by the club now. It sends a great PR message "Bring our club into disrepute and we'll give you free accomodation for a few months if you're mentally unstable. We're that nice." It is insane.

From my perspective the best thing to do would have been to sue her for damages. She is a complete nut job who feeds off attention. She is now being positively reinforced for her poor actions. Unbelievable.

In a climate where clubs need to keep financial, we're throwing money away (albeit minimal), like nuts to a squirrel. Well...this squirrel is nuts and loves nuts and as long as footballers have nuts she won't go away.


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Post: # 1034304Post rodgerfox »

It is so obviously the right thing to do.

Headline this morning....

"Saints help photo scandal girl"


The club has effectively distinguished the issue.

The club is 'helping' a person, who quite clearly needs it. By doibg so, they've removed the synpathy option that she was getting from many in the public.

She's had to once again publicly state that she lied previously about several things.


There were only ever 4 'issues' to this 'scandal'. They were...

That Gilbert hooked up with a child at a footy clinic.

That the club was nasty to her when her relationship ended with Gilbert.

That the players were naked in a group whilst a young girl took lewd photos of them (ie. the group sex angle).


The rest of it was just nonsense that no one cared about. The above were the angles that the press were chasing.


Through what happened yesterday, all 3 of the above have been sorted. It's been once again publicly confirmed that Gilbert didn't do what many wanted to believe he did.
The club is supported a 'troubled child' and helping her out.
And it's been once again confirmed that their was no 'sex scandal'.


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Post: # 1034306Post Dr Spaceman »

Schillaci wrote:In a climate where clubs need to keep financial, we're throwing money away (albeit minimal), like nuts to a squirrel. Well...this squirrel is nuts and loves nuts and as long as footballers have nuts she won't go away.
Staying financial will be near impossible if we don't pick up a major sponsor.

While it may leave a bad taste in one's mouth, this "rent" will be money well spent if it helps us whack a logo on the jumper.


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plugger66 wrote:
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plugger66 wrote:Hopefully that will it. Also I know a few on here will complain that we are paying for her to stay somewhere for a few months but at least it may control the situation and also show the club has a heart. Certainly much better PR than suing a very immature thinking 17 year old.

No public apology. No retractions. No admissions of puerile, harmful, immature stupidity.

What do we get for being the victim of a serial pest?

A rent bill.

Awesome result.

One can only hope that behind the media statement some sterner truths about little Miss f***-knuckle's non existent future were laid bare.

My tolerance level for her kind is nil.
Maybe you can join the hope she dies club. Also maybe you should look in the clubs backyard or at least Sam Giberts.

What we get is better PR than suing a 17 year old girl but hey that would be better for some because it shows how tough we can be.
Get off your soapboax, nong. And quite trying to put me on a boat I have no intention of sailing just becasue it suits you.

What nonsense.

There's no allegations of coercion or impropriety.

A bonked B. What more is there?

She's been offered help. She refused it. REPEATEDLY. The girl is adult enough. She can take some bloody responsibility for herself.

She's a destructive leech.


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Post: # 1034310Post rodgerfox »

Thinline wrote: There's no allegations of coercion or impropriety.

A bonked B. What more is there?

She's been offered help. She refused it. REPEATEDLY. The girl is adult enough. She can take some bloody responsibility for herself.

She's a destructive leech.
Reality, or at least what you think is reality, has no relevance whatsoever.

It's perception that is important.


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Thinline wrote:
plugger66 wrote:
Thinline wrote:
plugger66 wrote:Hopefully that will it. Also I know a few on here will complain that we are paying for her to stay somewhere for a few months but at least it may control the situation and also show the club has a heart. Certainly much better PR than suing a very immature thinking 17 year old.

No public apology. No retractions. No admissions of puerile, harmful, immature stupidity.

What do we get for being the victim of a serial pest?

A rent bill.

Awesome result.

One can only hope that behind the media statement some sterner truths about little Miss f***-knuckle's non existent future were laid bare.

My tolerance level for her kind is nil.
Maybe you can join the hope she dies club. Also maybe you should look in the clubs backyard or at least Sam Giberts.

What we get is better PR than suing a 17 year old girl but hey that would be better for some because it shows how tough we can be.
Get off your soapboax, nong. And quite trying to put me on a boat I have no intention of sailing just becasue it suits you.

What nonsense.

There's no allegations of coercion or impropriety.

A bonked B. What more is there?

She's been offered help. She refused it. REPEATEDLY. The girl is adult enough. She can take some bloody responsibility for herself.

She's a destructive leech.

Maybe your memory fails you but they have tried other things and it didnt work. We were still getting bad PR. Now we have done something that will give us good PR and if the girl says anything else it will be on her.

PS. What is a nong?


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Post: # 1034320Post Enrico_Misso »

plugger66 wrote:PS. What is a nong?
Lots of them in Oakleigh


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plugger66 wrote:PS. What is a nong?
Do you own a mirror?


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Post: # 1034327Post golden hawk »

Sainterman wrote:
We had flyers handed out at our first training session at our new home.



Hopefully her parents can now get involved and start to do their job. It might just be me but they brought her to this earth and they should take responsibility and help her, no matter what the circumstances.

She will be living in accomodation paid for by the club she stated she "hates" whilst Roo and Dal will probably never hear the end of it. Just look at the tools who accosted Rooey and caused another media beat up. If you are a journo reading this forum...get some ethics and think about what you are reporting...

Sorry situation all round!
hope she got done for throwing that paper about at your training the ..... i saw a tweet that she is not happy with her folks that was posted on the 18th so buckelys on them helping if she hates them
she lied she stole she deceived she is very lucky not to be sued specially after those tools did what they did to Nick !!!


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golden hawk wrote:
Sainterman wrote:
We had flyers handed out at our first training session at our new home.



Hopefully her parents can now get involved and start to do their job. It might just be me but they brought her to this earth and they should take responsibility and help her, no matter what the circumstances.

She will be living in accomodation paid for by the club she stated she "hates" whilst Roo and Dal will probably never hear the end of it. Just look at the tools who accosted Rooey and caused another media beat up. If you are a journo reading this forum...get some ethics and think about what you are reporting...

Sorry situation all round!
hope she got done for throwing that paper about at your training the ..... i saw a tweet that she is not happy with her folks that was posted on the 18th so buckelys on them helping if she hates them
she lied she stole she deceived she is very lucky not to be sued specially after those tools did what they did to Nick !!!
No doubt journos read this forum. It's the best quality forum. Have a look at the others...there don't seem to be any moderators, for one thing. They (the other clubs' forums) are a haven for ignorance.


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So lovely comments on this thread.

Hoping the girl dies, calling her a sl*t because she slept with more than one male (if a bloke does that he is a hero :roll: ), a bitch, a moll, etc etc.

The people who made these comments are at the same level they accuse this girl of being at.

Fools and ignoramouses.

The girl needed help, lawyer have obviously gotten through to her and shown that her destructive ways would hurt her in the future.

The Saints have come out looking good with the settlement of a couple of hundred bucks to help her out.

The girl looks foolish, and has admitted lying about a host of things and has lost any sympathy she may have been getting.

So to the dills who abuse her and call her a sl*t, I hope you dont mind when your kids are labelled that.

And the judgemental garbage about her parents. There is a person on this forum (not me) who knows her father well, and he is distraught about his daughter and the way she is acting. they have tried everything and cant control her.

With two girls of my own at around the same age, I have nothing but empathy for the parents, and there but by the grace of god go I.

About time some of you judgement fools examined your own motives for wishing the death of a young girl of abusing her as a sl*t.

Really disappointing but typical of internet hero's.


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joffaboy wrote:So lovely comments on this thread.

Hoping the girl dies, calling her a sl*t because she slept with more than one male (if a bloke does that he is a hero :roll: ), a bitch, a moll, etc etc.

The people who made these comments are at the same level they accuse this girl of being at.

Fools and ignoramouses.

The girl needed help, lawyer have obviously gotten through to her and shown that her destructive ways would hurt her in the future.

The Saints have come out looking good with the settlement of a couple of hundred bucks to help her out.

The girl looks foolish, and has admitted lying about a host of things and has lost any sympathy she may have been getting.

So to the dills who abuse her and call her a sl*t, I hope you dont mind when your kids are labelled that.

And the judgemental garbage about her parents. There is a person on this forum (not me) who knows her father well, and he is distraught about his daughter and the way she is acting. they have tried everything and cant control her.

With two girls of my own at around the same age, I have nothing but empathy for the parents, and there but by the grace of god go I.

About time some of you judgement fools examined your own motives for wishing the death of a young girl of abusing her as a sl*t.

Really disappointing but typical of internet hero's.
A massive plus 1 from me Joffa.

While I am not sympathiser to the girl for her actions, I do believe she is in serious need of help.

Something major has happened to her for her to start acting in this manner. You only had to look at her now defunct facebook page. She was the normal typical teenager and then all of a sudden the pics and posts began to change to what we see today.

Good on the Club for offering assistance. I just hope it is actually used for good and doesn't turn around and bite us on the bum.


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It's a very sobering thought JB. the kind of lifestyles that are being thrown at kids today, I hope my little one stays little for a long time yet.


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Post: # 1034342Post Eastern »

Maxstar22 wrote:
joffaboy wrote:So lovely comments on this thread.

Hoping the girl dies, calling her a sl*t because she slept with more than one male (if a bloke does that he is a hero :roll: ), a bitch, a moll, etc etc.

The people who made these comments are at the same level they accuse this girl of being at.

Fools and ignoramouses.

The girl needed help, lawyer have obviously gotten through to her and shown that her destructive ways would hurt her in the future.

The Saints have come out looking good with the settlement of a couple of hundred bucks to help her out.

The girl looks foolish, and has admitted lying about a host of things and has lost any sympathy she may have been getting.

So to the dills who abuse her and call her a sl*t, I hope you dont mind when your kids are labelled that.

And the judgemental garbage about her parents. There is a person on this forum (not me) who knows her father well, and he is distraught about his daughter and the way she is acting. they have tried everything and cant control her.

With two girls of my own at around the same age, I have nothing but empathy for the parents, and there but by the grace of god go I.

About time some of you judgement fools examined your own motives for wishing the death of a young girl of abusing her as a sl*t.

Really disappointing but typical of internet hero's.
A massive plus 1 from me Joffa.While I am not sympathiser to the girl for her actions, I do believe she is in serious need of help.

Something major has happened to her for her to start acting in this manner. You only had to look at her now defunct facebook page. She was the normal typical teenager and then all of a sudden the pics and posts began to change to what we see today.

Good on the Club for offering assistance. I just hope it is actually used for good and doesn't turn around and bite us on the bum.
Agreeing with joffa is one thing; praising him is sometthing else. Can you imagine the size of his mellon if this praise is to continue :wink: !!


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I was going to give him an extra bickie :P


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Stkildalink.

Well, hopefully she can get her life back on track and this messy situation can come to an end.


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Post: # 1034349Post bobmurray »

Eastern wrote:
Maxstar22 wrote:
joffaboy wrote:So lovely comments on this thread.

Hoping the girl dies, calling her a sl*t because she slept with more than one male (if a bloke does that he is a hero :roll: ), a bitch, a moll, etc etc.

The people who made these comments are at the same level they accuse this girl of being at.

Fools and ignoramouses.

The girl needed help, lawyer have obviously gotten through to her and shown that her destructive ways would hurt her in the future.

The Saints have come out looking good with the settlement of a couple of hundred bucks to help her out.

The girl looks foolish, and has admitted lying about a host of things and has lost any sympathy she may have been getting.

So to the dills who abuse her and call her a sl*t, I hope you dont mind when your kids are labelled that.

And the judgemental garbage about her parents. There is a person on this forum (not me) who knows her father well, and he is distraught about his daughter and the way she is acting. they have tried everything and cant control her.

With two girls of my own at around the same age, I have nothing but empathy for the parents, and there but by the grace of god go I.

About time some of you judgement fools examined your own motives for wishing the death of a young girl of abusing her as a sl*t.

Really disappointing but typical of internet hero's.
A massive plus 1 from me Joffa.While I am not sympathiser to the girl for her actions, I do believe she is in serious need of help.

Something major has happened to her for her to start acting in this manner. You only had to look at her now defunct facebook page. She was the normal typical teenager and then all of a sudden the pics and posts began to change to what we see today.

Good on the Club for offering assistance. I just hope it is actually used for good and doesn't turn around and bite us on the bum.
Agreeing with joffa is one thing; praising him is sometthing else. Can you imagine the size of his mellon if this praise is to continue :wink: !!
i dare not do either


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I find this hard to beleive but P66 and I agree, this in my opinion, is a good move by the club because it gives the impression to the publis that we are trying to help the girl.
It makes us appear to be the good guy, though yes we never we're the bad guy, but in the world of PR impressions are everything.
Interesting to read JB's comment's regarding her father, it just adds weight to what a troubled person this woman is.
Mind you what does annoy me about this whole story is that sadly this sort of thing happens every day. However, I can't see Derryn Hinch making headlines because average 21 year old Jowe Citizen down the road got a 16 year old school girl pregnant and dumped her.
But because it was an AFL footballer, well you know.


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Post: # 1034353Post Thinline »

plugger66 wrote:
Thinline wrote:
plugger66 wrote:
Thinline wrote:
plugger66 wrote:Hopefully that will it. Also I know a few on here will complain that we are paying for her to stay somewhere for a few months but at least it may control the situation and also show the club has a heart. Certainly much better PR than suing a very immature thinking 17 year old.

No public apology. No retractions. No admissions of puerile, harmful, immature stupidity.

What do we get for being the victim of a serial pest?

A rent bill.

Awesome result.

One can only hope that behind the media statement some sterner truths about little Miss f***-knuckle's non existent future were laid bare.

My tolerance level for her kind is nil.
Maybe you can join the hope she dies club. Also maybe you should look in the clubs backyard or at least Sam Giberts.

What we get is better PR than suing a 17 year old girl but hey that would be better for some because it shows how tough we can be.
Get off your soapboax, nong. And quite trying to put me on a boat I have no intention of sailing just becasue it suits you.

What nonsense.

There's no allegations of coercion or impropriety.

A bonked B. What more is there?

She's been offered help. She refused it. REPEATEDLY. The girl is adult enough. She can take some bloody responsibility for herself.

She's a destructive leech.

Maybe your memory fails you but they have tried other things and it didnt work. We were still getting bad PR. Now we have done something that will give us good PR and if the girl says anything else it will be on her.

PS. What is a nong?
A momentary dingbat who for a period of 5 seconds or so gives me the irrits...I'm well over it now.


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