Bernard Shakey wrote:It would appear that Matty Lloyd has a lot to answer for.
If a bit of internet banter has offended anyone I am sorry, but as far as I know, this is an internet forum and the wellbeing of participants is not immediately obvious or relevant.
"Pathetic" Faletic lived next door to my parents when he played for the Saints. If the use of the nickname that one of my brothers used to say to his face is offensive to anyone on this forum, I apologise.
Rest assured I will steer clear of any further posts by MF.
What's the point of sending a PM?
Don't answer that MF, it was a rhetorical question.
Can't help yourself can you?
Why not try being eloquent and debating issues rather than insulting people and making judgements. I don't believe you were referring to the player when you used the nickname "Pathetic" Faletic. It is my opinion that it was a back handed insult at me. Then
you said obviously I have never seen him play, another judgement and incorrect. My original avatar was a pic of him, but I think he had it removed. Maybe he was embarrassed, I don't know.
However, I am not pathetic Faletic, my nickname is Milan Faletic. Nice addition of the fact that your parents lived next door to him and your brother called him that. Easy to say after the event. Personally I don't think Milan or anyone for that matter, would be thrilled about being called "pathetic" despite what you say, but that is my opinion.
To "answer" your rhetorical question, pun intended, I sent you the PM to try to keep our conflict confidential, off the forum, between us and hopefully to nip it in the bud.
I said to you in my PM if you keep going at me, I will make the PM public so everyone can see what you are.
Then you posted, that I like to post a lot and that I am posting to stoke my ego, even though
you joined the forum 2 years later than me and have posted more posts than I have. That's a fact not a judgement. Yet, did I ever question your post count? You just couldn't let it rest.
When I was ill, nearly 30 posters privately and confidentially wished me well....
that is the point of a PM. Some are infamous posters who are quite aggressive on the forum but were kind enough to put the weapons down for a fellow Sainter.
You made a great point in your quoted post above. It is just internet banter. So if you can't express an opinion or counterargue someone without personal attacks or abuse, the mods will tell you to leave the forum or you will be warned and/or banned.
The welfare of the posters should be immediately important because the vast majority of posters support the Saints and we all utlimately want the same thing, a premiership. So if we can't get along with our own, how will we be in the real world and with opposition supporters?
I really don't want you to "steer clear" of my posts but just stop shadowing me all the time or I may start calling you "Ven Detta". I welcome your opinion and you can argue my points until your face turns blue but to paraphrase the forum rules:
*No personal attacks or abuse of other forum members.
...and finally from a personal point of view, not related to you BS, I have campaigned against swearing on both this forum and the Facebook page and feel that I have made an impact on both.