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Post: # 1845593Post Joffa Burns »

Former Saint assistant coach arrested for stalking.

I pose this question, if you were going to stalk someone, who would it be?

https://www.heraldsun.com.au/news/victo ... 5992f5b782

Former St Kilda assistant coach coach Dean Laidley is in custody charged with stalking.

The 53-year-old was arrested outside a home in St Kilda on Saturday night.

Police confirmed he was charged with stalking and other offences.

The Moonee Ponds man fronted the Melbourne Magistrates’ Court today.

He was remanded to appear at the same court on May 11.

Victoria Police would not provide further details into his alleged crimes.

“As the matter is before the court it would be inappropriate to comment further at this time,” a spokesperson said.

More to come.
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Post: # 1845594Post BarryGrogan »

They surely didn't refer to him as a St. Kilda Assistant did they??


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Post: # 1845596Post IluvHarvey »

No they didn’t but this is going to be one very strange story involving drug abusive, cross dressing and family violence.


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Post: # 1845597Post Bowey Boy »

Some interesting pictures on Twitter. Some serious stuff clearly going on in Dean's mind.


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Post: # 1845598Post magnifisaint »

Cross dressing hey. I wonder why?


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Post: # 1845600Post Harves Man »

I never thought of Laidley as a "quality person". A lot of trouble seems to magically find him. He didn't even attempt to get bail - odd, really. Never felt comfortable when he was in a coaching role at the club.


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Post: # 1845606Post Joffa Burns »

BarryGrogan wrote: Sun 03 May 2020 9:18pm They surely didn't refer to him as a St. Kilda Assistant did they??
No, just having a bit of fun with that one.

Some weird pictures in the Herald Scum.


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From wikipedia

"Dean Laidley (born 27 March 1967) is an Australian rules football assistant coach and former player, who played for the West Coast Eagles and North Melbourne in the Australian Football League (AFL) from 1987 to 1997, including in North Melbourne's 1996 premiership side. He was coach of North Melbourne from 2003 to 2009. "


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Post: # 1845611Post Joffa Burns »

That is some weird arse s*** going on there.... :shock:

https://www.foxsports.com.au/afl/afl-20 ... 641cb0217b


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magnifisaint wrote: Mon 04 May 2020 12:17am Cross dressing hey. I wonder why?
Because he can! :lol:


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Joffa Burns wrote: Mon 04 May 2020 1:41pm
magnifisaint wrote: Mon 04 May 2020 12:17am Cross dressing hey. I wonder why?
Because he can! :lol:
Being an ex AFL coach and player seems to give a false sense of accomplishment. Pretty sad really


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Post: # 1845617Post bigcarl »

I feel terribly sorry for Laidley. That picture of him with his mascara running ... just tragic.

The cop who leaked it on to the web is in strife as are at least one of the six people he sent it to.

I wouldn’t judge him on on his choices ... apart from the ice, which is just dumb.

But what is going to make it humiliating for him is that he has identified as a family man and macho footballer/coach. Sure, there have been rumours, but to be publicly outed like this must be very hard

Latest story is that he has been suffering from a psychiatric illness and was on bail when arrested.
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Post: # 1845618Post CURLY »

magnifisaint wrote: Mon 04 May 2020 3:21pm
Joffa Burns wrote: Mon 04 May 2020 1:41pm
magnifisaint wrote: Mon 04 May 2020 12:17am Cross dressing hey. I wonder why?
Because he can! :lol:
Being an ex AFL coach and player seems to give a false sense of accomplishment. Pretty sad really
Don't think it has anything to do with him being a ex AFL footballer and coach. Just a life choice which has turned bad.


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bigcarl wrote: Mon 04 May 2020 3:45pm I feel terribly sorry for Laidley. That picture of him with his mascara running ... just tragic.

I feel the cop who leaked it on to the web is in strife.

I wouldn’t judge him on on his choices ... apart from the ice, which is just dumb.

But what is going to make it humiliating for him is that he has identified as a family man and macho footballer/coach. Sure, there have been rumours, but to be publicly outed like this must be very hard.
Yep
And Caro will be tearing into him .
Not because of what's happening
Just that in a wig and makeup
He's still hotter than she'll ever be !


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Post: # 1845621Post desertsaint »

is he eligible for our aflw team?


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mr six o'clock wrote: Mon 04 May 2020 3:56pm
bigcarl wrote: Mon 04 May 2020 3:45pm I feel terribly sorry for Laidley. That picture of him with his mascara running ... just tragic.

I feel the cop who leaked it on to the web is in strife.

I wouldn’t judge him on on his choices ... apart from the ice, which is just dumb.

But what is going to make it humiliating for him is that he has identified as a family man and macho footballer/coach. Sure, there have been rumours, but to be publicly outed like this must be very hard.
Yep
And Caro will be tearing into him .
Not because of what's happening
Just that in a wig and makeup
He's still hotter than she'll ever be !
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Joffa Burns wrote: Mon 04 May 2020 1:38pm That is some weird arse s*** going on there.... :shock:

https://www.foxsports.com.au/afl/afl-20 ... 641cb0217b
What a misleading heading in that Foxtel article. “Senior cop...... “, from that description, I thought it would be a high ranking police officer, at the minimum, officer level.

Nah .... It’s only a lowly senior Constable .... one rank above the bottom level of Constable rank (which includes first Constable). Leaking a photo like that shows why he/she had only reached the lower ranks of a senior Constable of the police department.

But I guess this is some grubby journalist (or editor ) trying to make a sad, scandalous story appear more sensational. Why am I not amazed?


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Post: # 1845632Post Wayne42 »

In the words of John Lennon....

Nobody told me there'd be days like these,
Strange days indeed,
Most peculiar Mama .


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mr six o'clock wrote: Mon 04 May 2020 3:56pm
bigcarl wrote: Mon 04 May 2020 3:45pm I feel terribly sorry for Laidley. That picture of him with his mascara running ... just tragic.

I feel the cop who leaked it on to the web is in strife.

I wouldn’t judge him on on his choices ... apart from the ice, which is just dumb.

But what is going to make it humiliating for him is that he has identified as a family man and macho footballer/coach. Sure, there have been rumours, but to be publicly outed like this must be very hard.
Yep
And Caro will be tearing into him .
Not because of what's happening
Just that in a wig and makeup
He's still hotter than she'll ever be !
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Post: # 1845643Post magnifisaint »

The guy has got issues that shouldnt be aired in public. Leave him alone.


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loris wrote: Mon 04 May 2020 7:59pm
Joffa Burns wrote: Mon 04 May 2020 1:38pm That is some weird arse s*** going on there.... :shock:

https://www.foxsports.com.au/afl/afl-20 ... 641cb0217b
What a misleading heading in that Foxtel article. “Senior cop...... “, from that description, I thought it would be a high ranking police officer, at the minimum, officer level.

Nah .... It’s only a lowly senior Constable .... one rank above the bottom level of Constable rank (which includes first Constable). Leaking a photo like that shows why he/she had only reached the lower ranks of a senior Constable of the police department.

But I guess this is some grubby journalist (or editor ) trying to make a sad, scandalous story appear more sensational. Why am I not amazed?
er - a senior cop IS a senior cop! How else would you describe a senior cop? Cop is short for constable-on-patrol, I believe. So... presumably your post is just to have a go at journalists when the villain of the piece is the senior cop. Why?

Oh - and just to add, that's setting aside the victim of the stalking. But we don't care about that, for some reason. Poor Dean. Poor lowly cop. Damn journos! Especially Caro. Gee, she's ugly, right?


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This is an incredibly sad story and should never be trivialised in the way that some on this forum have done. Good-on North Melbourne FC and the AFL Coaches Association coming out in support of Dean Laidley. He certainly needs all the help and support he can get to survive this public humiliation.

There are literally thousands of males and females of all ages in our society who struggle with the question of their sexuality, and it causes many who can't deal with this internal conflict to take their own lives prematurely.

Please, if you don't have any sympathy for these poor individuals, just shut up and don't vent your warped prejudices with either sarcastic or negative comments.....


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Sanctorum wrote: Tue 05 May 2020 4:18pm This is an incredibly sad story and should never be trivialised in the way that some on this forum have done. Good-on North Melbourne FC and the AFL Coaches Association coming out in support of Dean Laidley. He certainly needs all the help and support he can get to survive this public humiliation.

There are literally thousands of males and females of all ages in our society who struggle with the question of their sexuality, and it causes many who can't deal with this internal conflict to take their own lives prematurely.

Please, if you don't have any sympathy for these poor individuals, just shut up and don't vent your warped prejudices with either sarcastic or negative comments.....
With your username, I think you spelled Sanctimonious wrong...…..


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Post: # 1845659Post asiu »

of course it should be aired
it’s an issue of ... healing of Self
that starts with acceptance of Self


how its ‘aired’
well

that says everything about the airers
the sharp the sensitive the sad ‘n the sick


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Post: # 1845661Post SydneySainter »

Sanctorum wrote: Tue 05 May 2020 4:18pm This is an incredibly sad story and should never be trivialised in the way that some on this forum have done. Good-on North Melbourne FC and the AFL Coaches Association coming out in support of Dean Laidley. He certainly needs all the help and support he can get to survive this public humiliation.

There are literally thousands of males and females of all ages in our society who struggle with the question of their sexuality, and it causes many who can't deal with this internal conflict to take their own lives prematurely.

Please, if you don't have any sympathy for these poor individuals, just shut up and don't vent your warped prejudices with either sarcastic or negative comments.....
I wouldn’t be so quick to assume that Laidley is a victim just yet. There is still a lot that is unknown.

There is no question that this is a gross breach of privacy and I feel for him in that respect.

But, he is being charged for stalking, let’s not forget that.


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