My Moral Dilemma
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My Moral Dilemma
I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.
I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
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Re: My Moral Dilemma
Just don't try and take her into a reserved saints area....Con Gorozidis wrote:I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.
I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
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Well my girlfriend goes for North, and I go to North games with her, however I never take her to Saints games with me. I have to go with another friend of mine, she's actually a Saints supporter and can get passionate with me. Luckily enough I avoided going to the North v Saints game with my girl, she chased me down the street when I gave a little fist pump on finding out the scores... If it's a big margin win, you won't get to enjoy it, that's my advice.
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Re: My Moral Dilemma
Use a frangadegruch wrote:Are you planning on playing the 'sympathy shag' card?Con Gorozidis wrote:I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
Lance or James??
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My "Ex" missus was a Melbourne supporter, she even went out with a well known player before we met and they were together for ages. We eventually married and had a boy and hes a Collingwood supporter
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Eek. That's a bad sign.Con Gorozidis wrote:suss wrote:First things first, how old is she?
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dunno she said something about having a job at mcdonalds?
Seriously, my wife was a half committed blues supporter when we first started met. Now she's an insane St Kilda supporter. Actually, it was kinda conditional upon the whole marriage thing.
I'd start by buying her a scarf and go with the whole 'we should be your second team' angle. You can work on things from there.
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I read that last line as I picked up the phone at work and burst out laughing.Con Gorozidis wrote:I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.
I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
Being a female myself, when dating opposition supporters there is no chance I'd be swapping teams. So I think you're stuck with her if she is a die-hard fan sorry.
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No chance. the missus doesn't even care about football so she dsaid they can all support St Kilda. I'll sway her eventually.ozrulestrace wrote:Don't believe in mixed marriages.
Stick with your own.
It's all about the children, I've heard of families where it's fine when it's just two children, one for each team, but when the third arrives, it's war
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Re: My Moral Dilemma
I went to the footy with my Freo Husband for about 10 years till after the grand final last year when he announced he was going to become a St Kilda member. It can be done and you may even manage to convert her in timeCon Gorozidis wrote:I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.
I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
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swapping teams.... now theres a thought....sainta wrote:I read that last line as I picked up the phone at work and burst out laughing.Con Gorozidis wrote:I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.
I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
Being a female myself, when dating opposition supporters there is no chance I'd be swapping teams. So I think you're stuck with her if she is a die-hard fan sorry.
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My daughter has the same problem in reverse. She's the Sainter and BF goes for the crows. They'll be going to the game together too. Maybe you all need to exchange numbers and if things don't work out you can swap partners.Con Gorozidis wrote:I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.
I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
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(Oh dear, that didn't come out right from her mother, did it?
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Re: My Moral Dilemma
and not in light of todays stories and it's link to history..SaintDebi wrote:My daughter has the same problem in reverse. She's the Sainter and BF goes for the crows. They'll be going to the game together too. Maybe you all need to exchange numbers and if things don't work out you can swap partners.Con Gorozidis wrote:I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.
I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?![]()
(Oh dear, that didn't come out right from her mother, did it?)
But they may make happier couples
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no it didnt after current days events. but lets face it. u are one funny mum!SaintDebi wrote:My daughter has the same problem in reverse. She's the Sainter and BF goes for the crows. They'll be going to the game together too. Maybe you all need to exchange numbers and if things don't work out you can swap partners.Con Gorozidis wrote:I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.
I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?![]()
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Don't do it.
Dating someone from another team leads to the dark side. It leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.
You need to break up with her before it goes any further.
Beware the dark side!
Dating someone from another team leads to the dark side. It leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.
You need to break up with her before it goes any further.
Beware the dark side!
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Re: My Moral Dilemma
Con Gorozidis wrote:I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.
I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
give her the flick....or convert her.....otherwise it will end in tears....always does......
....if you do go to the game together...sit on opposite sides of the ground.......voice of experience speaking here.....
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