Sledging: What's acceptable nowadays?

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terry smith rules wrote:any idiots on here saying harden up etc and sledging is part of the game

think on this http://au.news.yahoo.com/world/a/-/worl ... s-monitor/

and where is the line between this and what happened

some people on here need to realise this is no longer 1972 and if you want to defend sledging that is only a point away from verbal bullying, then maybe there is no hope for you

but maybe think about how you want your children to behave when they get older and what message are you sending them
I think you just wanted an excuse to show that video. Has absolutely nil relevence to what is being discussed as far as I'm concerned.

Was Pearce followed off the ground by a pack of bulldog players being taunted about his mother? Come off it. As I said earlier in the thread - a football field has nil correlation to a normal workplace. What Minson did was stupid (and depending what was actually said - even a little bit sick) but it was NOT bullying.


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Moods wrote:
terry smith rules wrote:any idiots on here saying harden up etc and sledging is part of the game

think on this http://au.news.yahoo.com/world/a/-/worl ... s-monitor/

and where is the line between this and what happened

some people on here need to realise this is no longer 1972 and if you want to defend sledging that is only a point away from verbal bullying, then maybe there is no hope for you

but maybe think about how you want your children to behave when they get older and what message are you sending them
I think you just wanted an excuse to show that video. Has absolutely nil relevence to what is being discussed as far as I'm concerned.

Was Pearce followed off the ground by a pack of bulldog players being taunted about his mother? Come off it. As I said earlier in the thread - a football field has nil correlation to a normal workplace. What Minson did was stupid (and depending what was actually said - even a little bit sick) but it was NOT bullying.

It is a work place if not then how come the players now owe a duty of care to the other players

and

yes it is not like the actions in the video. my point is what message do children get if a parent is at home saying pearce is soft and anything goes and then translating that to their world


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There's about 900 acts of bullying on the football each match. Mental and physical intimidation, and taking advantage of any physical and mental chinks in the armour of your opponent is a fundamental aspect of any sport. Especially contact sports.


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Johnny Member wrote:There's about 900 acts of bullying on the football each match. Mental and physical intimidation, and taking advantage of any physical and mental chinks in the armour of your opponent is a fundamental aspect of any sport. Especially contact sports.

Interesting figure. How do you come to that conclusion and what has that got to do with this anyway. There is a respect for women policy in the AFL. Dont respect then take the risk a player may not like it.


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So the issue isn't sledging or bullying, it's because he said something a woman? Pearce only complained because Minson disrespected women?


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Johnny Member wrote:
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Johnny Member wrote:Let's be honest, the AFL isn't much more than the Wacky Races cartoon that used to be on TV whilst I had breakfast before primary school about 20 years ago.
Really? In what way? Do they get to drive cars in the AFL? Weird comparison.
Because the bad guys lose, the good guys get bizarre and very convenient acts of god helping them, and the winner is different each day as long as it's suits what the audience wants.

Effectively, it's a rigged comp weighted heavily in the favour of certain clubs. And it cannot be taken seriously as a sporting competition.
No offence Johnny, but I cannot take that comment seriously. Maybe I've got my head in the sand, maybe you are right. Are St Kilda the 'bad guys' or the 'good guys' and why? Can you define which clubs get favours and which don't? If you mean the clubs deep in Rugby Lge. territory, then surely you can see why they get a leg up from the AFL, and what the advantages of that for this sport long term are. Please detail the convenient acts of god!

I am assuming that you're not happy with the 'socialist' principles of zero private ownership and draft picks being awarded to the teams in order of need, i.e. the team that finishes last, which in theory evens up the comp. Is that right? It's an interesting idea that it's not a proper 'sporting competition'; it's certainly unconventional, but I don't think it produces different winners each day, you still get the teams that always seem to make it to the top half, and the teams that never get anywhere.

I can't work out if you are disenfranchised with the AFL in general, (are we to take it that your bond to the Saints is the only thread keeping your attention, or is it just lack of an alternative? Have you tried the suburban leagues?), or if you actually enjoy it, but see it as heavily orchestrated entertainment rather than pure sport. Seems weird to spend time on a forum dedicated to following a sport which you don't think that much of, maybe I misunderstood something.

Back to the issue at hand. There are clear guidelines set out by the AFL in regards to sexism, racism, alcohol and drug use, bad behaviour, betting, and so on. Anytime that something happens in the sport which involves those 'red flag' issues, the AFL are going to want to nip it in the bud as quickly as possible. It's not unreasonable to think that either the AFL have informed the journalists connected with the sport that they expect support on those issues or that over time, journos have a nose for what will make big news in regards to those guidelines. Either way, the news hounds are along for the ride. So to a certain extent JohnnyM is right, if it was Pierce's father being slagged off, perhaps it wouldn't have been such an issue. However it would still be considered, because of the personal, family nature of the remark. It depends on how the victim takes it.

Minson probably knew that Pierce was sensitive about family issues so thought he could get under his skin and gain an advantage. He did, he was pulled up on it. Just like the case with Luis Suarez and Patrice Evra in the Eng. Premier Lge. He played the game, knowing that Evra is sensitive about racial issues (being that he has complained in the past). He got caught, he got punished, and the season continued. I am a Liverpool fan and a Suarez fan, and I have a big problem with what he said, and have no problem with that punishment, I also don't think Suarez is racist; just opportunistic and naïve, same as I don't think Minson is an arsehole, just an arse. Players may or may not be bigoted evil cruel competitors, but even if they are not, as Johnny said most will use their knowledge of their opponent's weaknesses to beat them, mental or physical. It seems like we are deciding as a society what boundaries are acceptable in that context, whereas before less existed. (although, if you go back far enough to the gentlemen in knickerbockers, you'd find a few instances of some players saying "I say old chap, that's not really on. I've a good mind to have you stripped of your membership for such indecent behaviour") If someone had a go at BJ about his bro in jail and he was a bit sensitive about it, does that give any of his opponents the licence to needle him about it? Is that really that sporting? In the past, we may have said "yes", but now the worm is turning.

Personnally, I think things from a players personal life should be off limits, it should be recognised that all players are humans and if you want to sledge someone about their family or any aspect of their personal life, then you should be prepared to accept that if the player doesn't like it, he can have cause to complain. I'm sure all players would rather their families were kept out of it, it might even be something that the AFLPA deal with. This is how sport evolves, and in fact how everything evolves, we create more rules. The alternative is to go back to the past and say what you like, racist or sexist or downright evil, doesn't matter. But once you bring boundaries into it, then it has to be clear what the boundaries are. And I think this latest episode is one step further in clarifying those boundaries.

It will die down and be forgotten, no one thinks any worse of Dermott Brereton or Nicky Winmar or Spider Everitt or Scott Chisolm or Fraser Gehrig or Luke McPharlin or any of the perps or victims over the years, Minson and Pierce will go on and play as they did and not die in infamy or shame.

The question at the heart of this issue is that do we as individuals accept the various changes to the way our society functions? On this particular issue I do accept it, on others I don't. If enough individuals don't accept this change, then they can unify and try to gain enough influence in society to change it again. If I was to base society on all the internet users that frequent this forum, including the ones that have not posted on this thread, I'd say that 80% don't mind either way, 15% are happy to see this restriction on personal sledging, 5% are against it. If you look at the comments in the newspapers, I'd imagine that would be a lot different, but then you have no idea how many people read about the issue and were ambivalent or satisfied enough not to bother writing in. It's usually only the ranty angry types that write those comments. Either way, it looks to me like this rule is probably here to stay. You can grumble about it more, but I don't think you'll get much support.


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top half of the list would be taken by those 'in it to win it'.

.... upset the bastards as quickly 'n as deeply as possible
Pearce has done himself no favours (on the footy field) and we'd be remiss , imo , not to reopen his wound.

you wanna win it ?


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are you willing to break the 'rules' to win it ?

get ball , give it to the dudes who kick it through the big sticks.
... do whatever it takes , to get the ball.

its not that hard really.


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Dude, AFL = footy. A game.

Real life = society.


The two are totally and utterly different things.


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Johnny Member wrote:Dude, AFL = footy. A game.

Real life = society.


The two are totally and utterly different things.
That's it?

Fair enough. I 100% agree.

Don't you think that the changes that are happening in the game often represent the changes that happen in real life? While they are different, you can't say that they are not related.

The people that play those games are people that have to function in society, they are not just cartoon characters or robots. Do we want players to be dysfunctional and damaged when they are out in the real world? I'm not sure that that's what the players want. If they want to have a place in a real world that is not prison or on the floor of a bar or trapped in the microcosm of the football world, they have to have the skills and attributes to survive there. The football world now is trying to educate its players to become more than bar/restaurant owners or chronic gamblers after retirement. That education extends to human relations, surely.

What I mean is if we have boofheads brawling with each other in the field because that's the way they know how to deal with people trying to upset them, then those people will take those 'skills' with them into society.

So I don't see what you're saying. Are you saying that it's just a game and we shouldn't apply human principles to it? Are you saying that the rules are different on the field to our society's rules? Or are you saying "Jeez, lighten up you mug, I can't be bothered reading all that rubbish, let alone thinking of a coherent argument"?

If it's the final option that's fine, maybe you're right; I shouldn't take it that seriously. It's just that some of us were debating something interesting. But yeah; Wacky Races, whatever.


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Gah. I really need to learn to say more with less. Sorry JM and anyone else, not having a go. It doesn't mean anything anyway, and won't change a thing. Total waste of energy. I'm out.


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Austinnn wrote:Gah. I really need to learn to say more with less. Sorry JM and anyone else, not having a go. It doesn't mean anything anyway, and won't change a thing. Total waste of energy. I'm out.
I really appreciate what you have written here and yes a lot of words, but well put together, articulate and reasoned


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same.

... appreciate the effort.


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