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My Moral Dilemma

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I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.

I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?


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Post: # 931339Post suss »

First things first, how old is she?


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Post: # 931342Post saintlee »

Just go with her, I go with friends who don't support the Saints all the time...it can be quite fun...providing saints win of course! :wink:


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Post: # 931343Post markp »

Decide whether going to the game with her, whatever the eventuality (result either way, your possible behaviour, her possible behaviour) is likely to harm the relationship more than explaining to her you just cant do it.


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Con Gorozidis wrote:I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.

I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
Just don't try and take her into a reserved saints area....


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Post: # 931350Post Stillwaiting »

This might sound poor, but I can`t go to games with op supporters no matter who it is


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Post: # 931356Post SaintTom »

Well my girlfriend goes for North, and I go to North games with her, however I never take her to Saints games with me. I have to go with another friend of mine, she's actually a Saints supporter and can get passionate with me. Luckily enough I avoided going to the North v Saints game with my girl, she chased me down the street when I gave a little fist pump on finding out the scores... If it's a big margin win, you won't get to enjoy it, that's my advice.


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Post: # 931364Post Con Gorozidis »

suss wrote:First things first, how old is she?

:lol: :lol: :lol:

dunno she said something about having a job at mcdonalds?


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Con Gorozidis wrote:I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
Are you planning on playing the 'sympathy shag' card?


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Post: # 931374Post OneEyedSainter77 »

How do you think I feel? I married a Collingwood supporter!


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degruch wrote:
Con Gorozidis wrote:I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
Are you planning on playing the 'sympathy shag' card?
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Post: # 931381Post claystreet »

My "Ex" missus was a Melbourne supporter, she even went out with a well known player before we met and they were together for ages. We eventually married and had a boy and hes a Collingwood supporter :shock:

Moral to the story is combining Melbourne with Stkilda gets you Collingwood, St kilda with Adelaide will get you a mental institution :D


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Post: # 931386Post suss »

Con Gorozidis wrote:
suss wrote:First things first, how old is she?

:lol: :lol: :lol:

dunno she said something about having a job at mcdonalds?
Eek. That's a bad sign.

Seriously, my wife was a half committed blues supporter when we first started met. Now she's an insane St Kilda supporter. Actually, it was kinda conditional upon the whole marriage thing.

I'd start by buying her a scarf and go with the whole 'we should be your second team' angle. You can work on things from there.

Good luck!


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Post: # 931437Post GrumpyOne »

In the light of today's news, I'd hesitate to associate with a girl who says she goes for any particular football team.

After all, she may be completely right. :wink:


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Con Gorozidis wrote:I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.

I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
I read that last line as I picked up the phone at work and burst out laughing.

Being a female myself, when dating opposition supporters there is no chance I'd be swapping teams. So I think you're stuck with her if she is a die-hard fan sorry.


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Post: # 931586Post ozrulestrace »

Don't believe in mixed marriages.

Stick with your own.

It's all about the children, I've heard of families where it's fine when it's just two children, one for each team, but when the third arrives, it's war :x


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Post: # 931588Post OneEyedSainter77 »

ozrulestrace wrote:Don't believe in mixed marriages.

Stick with your own.

It's all about the children, I've heard of families where it's fine when it's just two children, one for each team, but when the third arrives, it's war :x
No chance. the missus doesn't even care about football so she dsaid they can all support St Kilda. I'll sway her eventually.


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Con Gorozidis wrote:I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.

I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
I went to the footy with my Freo Husband for about 10 years till after the grand final last year when he announced he was going to become a St Kilda member. It can be done and you may even manage to convert her in time :lol:


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sainta wrote:
Con Gorozidis wrote:I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.

I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
I read that last line as I picked up the phone at work and burst out laughing.

Being a female myself, when dating opposition supporters there is no chance I'd be swapping teams. So I think you're stuck with her if she is a die-hard fan sorry.
swapping teams.... now theres a thought.... :lol: :lol: :lol:


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Con Gorozidis wrote:I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.

I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
My daughter has the same problem in reverse. She's the Sainter and BF goes for the crows. They'll be going to the game together too. Maybe you all need to exchange numbers and if things don't work out you can swap partners. :wink:

(Oh dear, that didn't come out right from her mother, did it? :oops: )


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SaintDebi wrote:
Con Gorozidis wrote:I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.

I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
My daughter has the same problem in reverse. She's the Sainter and BF goes for the crows. They'll be going to the game together too. Maybe you all need to exchange numbers and if things don't work out you can swap partners. :wink:

(Oh dear, that didn't come out right from her mother, did it? :oops: )
and not in light of todays stories and it's link to history..

But they may make happier couples


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SaintDebi wrote:
Con Gorozidis wrote:I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.

I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?
My daughter has the same problem in reverse. She's the Sainter and BF goes for the crows. They'll be going to the game together too. Maybe you all need to exchange numbers and if things don't work out you can swap partners. :wink:

(Oh dear, that didn't come out right from her mother, did it? :oops: )
no it didnt after current days events. but lets face it. u are one funny mum!

:lol: :lol:


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Post: # 931673Post markinUSA »

Don't do it.

Dating someone from another team leads to the dark side. It leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.

You need to break up with her before it goes any further.

Beware the dark side!
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Con Gorozidis wrote:I have recently started seeing a girl who for some hard to fathom reason goes for the crows (she is not even from Adelaide). She knows I am Saints fan and has suggested we go to the game together.

I feel kinda dirty and awkward. Any advice?

give her the flick....or convert her.....otherwise it will end in tears....always does......


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Post: # 931767Post jonesy »

I went out with a carlton supporter...she broke my heart and cheated on me at the end of 2001...interestingly they never beat us again since....until 2 weeks ago. Maybe she's learnt her lesson by now,or maybe after 9 years it's a sign I should move on :lol:


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