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what are the options- Ezra's story
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How the AFL failed to catch a falling star
November 17, 2007
"EZRA Bray has disappeared again into the long grass somewhere outside Darwin. Plenty of people have gone looking for him in the five years since he fell out of favour with AFL football. Despite some of the best intentions, no one has truly found him. >............. "
feature in the Age today.
finally we see something written of others who are struggling with the affects of Modern society ( and not just BEN)- I think we need to see and hear these stories- we do praise the successes and many turn their minds away But when we don't know we can't understand -Hiding it isn't working- not telling who is or isn't in trouble because of- obviously isn't working,
the AFL and Sport in general and Society/ the community we live in have all learnt and are learning more all the time- But as usually happens we learn after....... and not before- none of us sees the pitfalls untill ourselves or others fall into them.
yes we can blame them or them or them- but fact is the subversive will always be ahead of the regular, hiding in corners and making plays for those who are struggling-
Ever the doer rather than the blamer I ask- What can we do?
if you push you get- It's my life
if you don't push- you didn't care?
How can we show them be they footballers or kids on the street- how can we show the positives that they have?
making sure that those who have achieved are examples BUT not seen to be beyond because of current cirumstances- to now get- "But I'll never be able to,'
How the AFL failed to catch a falling star
November 17, 2007
"EZRA Bray has disappeared again into the long grass somewhere outside Darwin. Plenty of people have gone looking for him in the five years since he fell out of favour with AFL football. Despite some of the best intentions, no one has truly found him. >............. "
feature in the Age today.
finally we see something written of others who are struggling with the affects of Modern society ( and not just BEN)- I think we need to see and hear these stories- we do praise the successes and many turn their minds away But when we don't know we can't understand -Hiding it isn't working- not telling who is or isn't in trouble because of- obviously isn't working,
the AFL and Sport in general and Society/ the community we live in have all learnt and are learning more all the time- But as usually happens we learn after....... and not before- none of us sees the pitfalls untill ourselves or others fall into them.
yes we can blame them or them or them- but fact is the subversive will always be ahead of the regular, hiding in corners and making plays for those who are struggling-
Ever the doer rather than the blamer I ask- What can we do?
if you push you get- It's my life
if you don't push- you didn't care?
How can we show them be they footballers or kids on the street- how can we show the positives that they have?
making sure that those who have achieved are examples BUT not seen to be beyond because of current cirumstances- to now get- "But I'll never be able to,'
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What this story and Ben's shows is that people will f*** up regardless of the amount of support given.
Ben's problems are supposed to stem from too much being done for him - Ezra's problems are supposed to stem from too little being done.
Can't we just accept that people f*** up regardless and football clubs shouldn't be expected to solve all of societies ills?
Ezra's case is just another example that more can be done to support kids coming into the system but there's plenty of these examples and not all involve drugs. IMO we draft kids too young but a massive amount is being done to improve the support for them.
Regardless of how much support is given, kids will still f*** up and people will still try and blame football clubs for not having solved a problem that society can't.
Ben's problems are supposed to stem from too much being done for him - Ezra's problems are supposed to stem from too little being done.
Can't we just accept that people f*** up regardless and football clubs shouldn't be expected to solve all of societies ills?
Ezra's case is just another example that more can be done to support kids coming into the system but there's plenty of these examples and not all involve drugs. IMO we draft kids too young but a massive amount is being done to improve the support for them.
Regardless of how much support is given, kids will still f*** up and people will still try and blame football clubs for not having solved a problem that society can't.
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i think the point of the benny case is hes not a 17 yearold kid so the club cant really be held responceable to what he does but if you were a parent of a 17 yearold about to be drafted to a club from another state (not just west coast) there would be that little bit of fear for them as 17 year olds they will now be more then likly living with a fellow team mate who would be around 20 years old in a non familiar surroundings so the chance for them to go off the rails is greater
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i know in the past the new boys from interstate used to be sent to live with host familys who some what looked after the kids but in recent years they have been house shareing with the older guys and i mean a 20yearold isnt gunna be a parental figure for a 17yearold
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Yep. They've come from a system where for the most part they've had the experience of playing in front of large crowds and on national tv.Spinner wrote:In the states, dont draftees come out of the college system?
Hence averaging about 22 years old?
There's plenty of kids that suffer in that system too though.
In the NFL teams don't take responsibility for players welfare like they do in the AFL. Each player is considered a contractor and if you don't perform for whatever reason they'll cut you before trying to help you fix your problems. The NFL & NFLPA is far more active than the teams in education for players.
While I think we should lift the drafting age, I don't base that on anything that happens in the American system.
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I remember a newspaper article about Nick R & Kosi when they first arrived at the club. They both lived with the same host lady who according to the article did everything a mother would do and perhaps that little bit more. They both stayed with her for about 2 years.st_Trav_ofWA wrote:i know in the past the new boys from interstate used to be sent to live with host familys who some what looked after the kids but in recent years they have been house shareing with the older guys and i mean a 20yearold isnt gunna be a parental figure for a 17yearold
I see this as providing the best outcomes for the club and the players. It isn't going to work for all but it appears to work for the majority. !!
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Bit of a milf maybe .....Eastern wrote:
I remember a newspaper article about Nick R & Kosi when they first arrived at the club. They both lived with the same host lady who according to the article did everything a mother would do and perhaps that little bit more. They both stayed with her for about 2 years.
Surely player managers need to take some responsibility in this too?
I agree that placing players with families is a good outcome when it works but it is a little hit and miss.
Personally I'd prefer the TAC be made an under 19s comp and the drafting age lifted. Won't solve all problems with player development but I reckon it will keep more kids in the game and in their home state.
I agree that placing players with families is a good outcome when it works but it is a little hit and miss.
Personally I'd prefer the TAC be made an under 19s comp and the drafting age lifted. Won't solve all problems with player development but I reckon it will keep more kids in the game and in their home state.
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lifting the age is a good idea but i think the thing clubs need to learn is that these kids are just that kids .. and having a cashed up 18yearold with a celebrity status is not going to be easy to keep in check .
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In terms of being cashed up, maybe the Clubs should look at "locking away" a percentage of the player's yearly salary to be kept "in trust" until they hit a certain age (say 27 or 28).st_Trav_ofWA wrote:and having a cashed up 18yearold with a celebrity status is not going to be easy to keep in check .
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I remember hearing that they wanted to move out earlier - either the end of first or end of second and the club basicly said 'no'Eastern wrote: I remember a newspaper article about Nick R & Kosi when they first arrived at the club. They both lived with the same host lady who according to the article did everything a mother would do and perhaps that little bit more. They both stayed with her for about 2 years.
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I heard David Armitage asked about his living arrangements- ie how much housework he does :0- and he siad he didn't do any because his host'mum' was so wonderful
Couple of years ago Bakes was doing this- he left it to his manager and got an allowance per week for fun and social activities.TimeToShineFellas wrote: In terms of being cashed up, maybe the Clubs should look at "locking away" a percentage of the player's yearly salary to be kept "in trust" until they hit a certain age (say 27 or 28).
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What about cashed up rock stars - should we force the same of them?TimeToShineFellas wrote:In terms of being cashed up, maybe the Clubs should look at "locking away" a percentage of the player's yearly salary to be kept "in trust" until they hit a certain age (say 27 or 28).st_Trav_ofWA wrote:and having a cashed up 18yearold with a celebrity status is not going to be easy to keep in check .
This social engineering through football is nonsense (IMO)
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he's a smart fella then is bakes...saintbrat wrote:I remember hearing that they wanted to move out earlier - either the end of first or end of second and the club basicly said 'no'Eastern wrote: I remember a newspaper article about Nick R & Kosi when they first arrived at the club. They both lived with the same host lady who according to the article did everything a mother would do and perhaps that little bit more. They both stayed with her for about 2 years.
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I heard David Armitage asked about his living arrangements- ie how much housework he does :0- and he siad he didn't do any be4cause his host'mum' was so wonderful
Couple of years ago Bakes was doing this- he left it to his manager and got an allowance per week for fun and social activities.TimeToShineFellas wrote: In terms of being cashed up, maybe the Clubs should look at "locking away" a percentage of the player's yearly salary to be kept "in trust" until they hit a certain age (say 27 or 28).
"It's a work in progress," Lyon said.
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Raise the age of the TAC Cup to 19 or 20 and let these kids finish school before having to concentrate on Footy or any career.
Let them compete against other kids until they are able to mix it with the men. 17 year olds are not physically or mentally anywhere near mature enough for the rigours of full time professional sport.
Benny and Ezra are similar in some ways.
Benny has never experienced life outside the cocooned existence of an elite AFL player. He probably became bored and played around with all sorts of substances and all sorts of women.
Ezra came from a totally different environment and couldn't handle the AFL life and probably fell into substance aduse as an escape.
From the Age story both deny they need help.
Let them compete against other kids until they are able to mix it with the men. 17 year olds are not physically or mentally anywhere near mature enough for the rigours of full time professional sport.
Benny and Ezra are similar in some ways.
Benny has never experienced life outside the cocooned existence of an elite AFL player. He probably became bored and played around with all sorts of substances and all sorts of women.
Ezra came from a totally different environment and couldn't handle the AFL life and probably fell into substance aduse as an escape.
From the Age story both deny they need help.
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knowing a few players...they do say that being an afl player at times can get very boring as its not as if you are down at the football club 9-5 like a job in the real world so to speakBernard Shakey wrote:Raise the age of the TAC Cup to 19 or 20 and let these kids finish school before having to concentrate on Footy or any career.
Let them compete against other kids until they are able to mix it with the men. 17 year olds are not physically or mentally anywhere near mature enough for the rigours of full time professional sport.
Benny and Ezra are similar in some ways.
Benny has never experienced life outside the cocooned existence of an elite AFL player. He probably became bored and played around with all sorts of substances and all sorts of women.
Ezra came from a totally different environment and couldn't handle the AFL life and probably fell into substance aduse as an escape.
From the Age story both deny they need help.
its logical...if young kids get bored they try new things...it happens
its like the normal progression for teenagers/young adults
they start drinking...get bored of that...try smoking...get bored of that...try weed...get bored of that and try ecstacy/pills...and usually stop
"It's a work in progress," Lyon said.
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Wonderful lady from Brighton who I won't name. Saints have a terrific support network in that sense.Eastern wrote:I remember a newspaper article about Nick R & Kosi when they first arrived at the club. They both lived with the same host lady who according to the article did everything a mother would do and perhaps that little bit more. They both stayed with her for about 2 years.st_Trav_ofWA wrote:i know in the past the new boys from interstate used to be sent to live with host familys who some what looked after the kids but in recent years they have been house shareing with the older guys and i mean a 20yearold isnt gunna be a parental figure for a 17yearold
I see this as providing the best outcomes for the club and the players. It isn't going to work for all but it appears to work for the majority. !!
That is probably the best article Caroline Wilson has written in her career, and I'll be surprised if she doesn't get an AFL media award for it next year.
Tragic story ... feel sorry for the guy.
They should only play AFL games now when it's raining. Slow games of footy are so much better to watch.
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I remember a newspaper article about Nick R & Kosi when they first arrived at the club. They both lived with the same host lady who according to the article did everything a mother would do and perhaps that little bit more. They both stayed with her for about 2 years.
...what a terrible thing to say.....
.everybody still loves lenny....and we always will
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im sick of the comparison from footballers and rock stars ectJeffDunne wrote:What about cashed up rock stars - should we force the same of them?TimeToShineFellas wrote:In terms of being cashed up, maybe the Clubs should look at "locking away" a percentage of the player's yearly salary to be kept "in trust" until they hit a certain age (say 27 or 28).st_Trav_ofWA wrote:and having a cashed up 18yearold with a celebrity status is not going to be easy to keep in check .
This social engineering through football is nonsense (IMO)
first of rock stars are not needed to have their bodies in pristine condition to do their job .
secondly Rock stars are not governed to follow any rules other then the law .
thirdly the rock industry makes no claims it is drug free
is it prrfessional atheleats and entertainers are compleatly differant
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I'm sick of people that go off half-cocked when they haven't read the entire thread.st_Trav_ofWA wrote:im sick of the comparison from footballers and rock stars ectJeffDunne wrote:What about cashed up rock stars - should we force the same of them?TimeToShineFellas wrote:In terms of being cashed up, maybe the Clubs should look at "locking away" a percentage of the player's yearly salary to be kept "in trust" until they hit a certain age (say 27 or 28).st_Trav_ofWA wrote:and having a cashed up 18yearold with a celebrity status is not going to be easy to keep in check .
This social engineering through football is nonsense (IMO)
first of rock stars are not needed to have their bodies in pristine condition to do their job .
secondly Rock stars are not governed to follow any rules other then the law .
thirdly the rock industry makes no claims it is drug free
is it prrfessional atheleats and entertainers are compleatly differant
The comparison I made with rock stars was in regards to their salary and whether we should force people to have income locked in a trust. The comparison was due to it being another industry where young people can make a large amount of money over what is usually a short career.
Nothing to do with drugs.
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my badJeffDunne wrote:I'm sick of people that go off half-cocked when they haven't read the entire thread.st_Trav_ofWA wrote:im sick of the comparison from footballers and rock stars ectJeffDunne wrote:What about cashed up rock stars - should we force the same of them?TimeToShineFellas wrote:In terms of being cashed up, maybe the Clubs should look at "locking away" a percentage of the player's yearly salary to be kept "in trust" until they hit a certain age (say 27 or 28).st_Trav_ofWA wrote:and having a cashed up 18yearold with a celebrity status is not going to be easy to keep in check .
This social engineering through football is nonsense (IMO)
first of rock stars are not needed to have their bodies in pristine condition to do their job .
secondly Rock stars are not governed to follow any rules other then the law .
thirdly the rock industry makes no claims it is drug free
is it prrfessional atheleats and entertainers are compleatly differant
The comparison I made with rock stars was in regards to their salary and whether we should force people to have income locked in a trust. The comparison was due to it being another industry where young people can make a large amount of money over what is usually a short career.
Nothing to do with drugs.
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I believe it shows how incrediable the clarke brothers and alan murray have been, not only not slipping into the culture of substance abuse and depression but actively helping their community.
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i think alan murray really had he head screwed on right he was a great ambassador for the indiginous comunity its a shame his football skills didnt match his life skills
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